The big difference is that Liverpool sought to actively press us, and which resulted in a (good) reaction from the team. This is why I don't buy Maresca's nonsense about control, because what we do with possession is apparently entirely dictated by our opponent.
I agree with
@Bob stark about dribbling, side ways passing etc to make passing lanes. The problem is, as
@nonotnowjim points out, we do all those things so painfully slowly that it cripples any chance of it being effective
and I would add, actually makes us less defensively sound because the opposition are not thinking in the back of the mind about our attacking threat. The single biggest problem is we move the ball slowest where there is least risk (defence/keeper), unless we react to the opposition's press.